Week Topic: Family

Finally, after a whole week, it’s the end of the family blog. Now what you may or may have not realized, is that you already started helping your issues by noticing you issues you and your family has. Now, this is an extremely short blog because you most likely have already started helping your family issues, just by reading this blog. But if you haven’t and you were waiting on me to do the work for you, here it is… As simple as it is. Read through my previous blog and I want you to take notes on your family and I want you to right down goals and tack them on a wall or put them up in sight of you were you always are. And I want you to write goals on what you want to change about your family, and I realize you can’t change the money. But That one was purely to make you realize that, you may not have the money you think you have which I hoped then that maybe you’d realize that and stop asking for so much. But make goals, try to sit down with your family (Trust me it’s not that hard to do… Don’t be scared [But I must warn you if you do have abusive parents don’t risk it and go to the guidance counselor or someone to talk to, the police, they’ll listen, a therapist… any one…. And also don’t be scared to do something like that either, trust me, I’m still in school I know these things… So good luck and I’m here if you need someone to talk to.

Okay everyone this is the final step to finding your familyissues. This level graph has to do with money.

(These were based on income that families in the state of Kentuckywould average around…)

Level 1 – No income or no money to buy food

Level 2 – Extremely poor, about around 20,000 or less peryear

Level 3 – Very poor. Around 25,000 or less per year

Level 4 - Poor, around 30,000 or less per year

Level 5 – average, around 30,000 or more per year.

Level 6  - more than averagearound 35,000 per year

Level 7 – way more then normal around 40,000 per year

Level 8  - Way, waymore than normal around 45,000  per year

Level 9 – more rich than other 50,000 per year

Level 10 doing way! More than normal around 60,000 per year

 Now that you cannotice you families money problem… or not such a problem you can address your familiesissues… I’ll have another blog up for results either tonight or tomorrow

Okay, have you figured out you families communication issues? If so, then lets go on. This is Physical contact issues. For me there are 5 Levels to physical contact. Here they are.

Level 1 – Extreme harsh or uncontrollable contact (Including unnecessary punching, smacking or even raping)

Level 2 – Harsh contact (including unnecessary punching, smacking and Ect.)

Level 3 – unnecessary contact including (Punching smackingand Ect)

Level 4 – Unnecessary contact including (smacking)

Level 5 – Necessary contact for punishment and nothing else

Okay everyone I want you to look at this scale and I want you to find your family.  Now I want you guys to remember this is for inner family relations nothing else. So good luck and I’ll post another one tonight, I’ll be here along the way :).

Hello, I know it’s been like 5 months since I’ve posted butwell that’s over so let’s get to it…

This weeks Blog is about Family, and the effects family onyour life. I think, that family is a very diverse subject and a very hard thingto cover, which is why I’m doing this as a subject, not because it’s a challengebut because I know allot of people have some problems with their family. Now, inmy opinion there are levels of a family. There are levels 1 – 10 in many categoriesas the title states this is finding any communication problems.

Level 1 – Extremely separate No communication one parent ornone

Level 2 – separate with some to none communication, Oneparent

Level 3 - Separated with some communication one or twoparents (one parent separate)

Level 4 – Separated, with communication one or two parents (oneparent leaves a lot)

Level 5 – Not separate Communication Two parents (unless onis passed) (Normal)

Level 6 – Not separated Communication, Two parents, invasive

Level 7 - Un-separable communication two parents to invasive

Level 8 - un-separable communication two parents way to invasive

Level 9 - Un-separable communication. Two parent’s Extreme invasiveness

Level 10 - Inseparable communication two parents No freedom

            Now I needyou to look thought this and I want you to find your family. This is only thefirst stage to dealing with any family problems; I’ll have another blog to go onthe second stage to dealing with your family issues. Thanks and good luck, I’llbe here every step of the way, Inbox for any questions.

Hello, this is my first blog in a while… And I apologize greatly…But here it is   ….Okay Too me… Abnormal relation ships are Relationships in general… And I’m going to be discussing that…. First what Ithink a good relationship is, is a relationship, with no jealousy, no fighting,no cheating of course, no Flirting with others…. Which I know is one of themost unlikely relationships to happen… Which is why I think no one has a perfect relation… There’s always going to be jealousy, always going to bedisagreements. But that’s what I also Think is a good relationship… Cause ifyou think if it weren’t jealous sometimes… there wouldn’t be that climax of connectionbetween a couple. And if it weren’t for that disagreement. There wouldn’t beanything to improve on… Then your stuck with the same old relationship justgiving each other gooey eyes… which not only sounds boring it also sounds bland…like there’s nothing to try out in the world. This is short one, but I want tocover everything in one week… For more in detail of what I think, Read my nextblog tomorrow Jthank you.

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Hello, and as you can see this weeks topic is sexuality. And when I say that I mean, Homosexual, Bisexual, Straight, and lesbian. To start us off, let’s talk about how you/I know what our orientations is. Which means, how you “feel” like gay straight bi or lesbian? Well all I can say is, is were born feeling what we feel. I mean in kindergarten you could be straight as an arrow. But as you age. Your orientation changes. And that doesn’t happen to everyone. But remember, same as religion, you need not to care about what people think. As long as you feel good. And I’m not saying to go around telling everyone that you’re gay or bi or lesbian. Cause most people won’t be as accepting as others. Just keep in mind, Do what feels right, what your orientation is. Just go with it. .And I am going to say one more thing about religion, because it can affect your religion too. For example in Wicca. The religion is based on nature, but the ancestors also believed it to be a religion of fertility. And being gay/bi/lesbian was unnatural. Although the religion as evolved to more of a nature based religion. It still partially is a religion of fertility. And with Christianity, Being gay/bi/lesbian is a “sin, and you’ll be cast down to hell” just for going with what you feel. Which honestly I find a horrible aspect of people to say “there loving wrong”. Not that I hate or I’m disrespecting Christianity, it just isn’t right to comment or decide how someone else feels. And lets face it, I don’t think god said “and gays shall here forth be cast to hell for this” If you ask me, I think the original writer of the bible was just a homophobe Bye everyone I love you and have a blessed day.

Hello, and thanks for taking some time out of your day to read my blog. Today i`ll be talking about trusting you  religion. it is 5:15 am cause sometimes I have to stay up late for a inspiration to come to me. Okay back to topic. "Trusting your religion", Trusting your religion, to me. Means not  doubting it, not saying "Well then again that's pretty unbelievable". because I mean, if you doubt your religion then your not very faithful to it. It`s the same as saying...say superman. He`s fighting a battle and the other guy has  kriptonite. If you  say "oh no! the other guy has kriptonite, superman is goign to lose!" that's being unfaithful. basically this metaphor means if your unfaithful to your religion, then your going to forget about and then your going to forget about it and then you`ll be faithless. And I`m going to be honest, I have`nt been faithful to my religion before. I got made fun of cause of it, and I pushed it to the side and lost faith. But I pushed through. What i`m trying to say is,is stay faithful, trust your religion and don`t  let anyone tell you that you can`t practice that religion, or anything! this is my last blog for the topic religion. And Iv`e highly enjoyed talking to you about it. As much as I hope you enjoyed reading about it. Love you, and don`t forget. Stay faithful, Don`t let anyone tell you,you can`t practice that religion. Stand up for what you believe in. Blessed be <3

Hello, and thank your for taking some time out of your day to read this blog. This blog as you can see is about figuring out your religion. To start I want to say, If you were born into a religion and you just never felt that  religion, clicked with you. You never felt safe or at home with it. No matter what anyone says you don`t have to practice that religion. Religion is a belief, an inner decision...your decision . Now to get back on track. If your sitting here reading this and you don`t know what to believe, don`t let me or anyone influence you to do something or practice something you don`t feel at home with. Say Catholicism, you felt at home with. Then first, just even by saying that: "I feel safer, or more at home with this religion" Is already saying. "Hey  this is what I believe in!" Cause if you did`nt believe in there god/goddesses then you would`nt be considering it. Because in a religion you also have to believe in there deities. So make sure you at the least agree in what the religion is saying first. But  if you do agree in what there saying  than go for it. You don`t have to have all the tools or items. In every religion it`s not the tools you use or the items you have it`s about whats in your heart. And rather you follow whats in your heart, and if you do follow what in your heart.... you`ll be okay. Thanks for reading my blog. Please take in consideration to what iv`e said. And if you disagree. you can  Post what you think and your ideas in the forums and if you don`t feel comfortable with other people reading them then send them to me in my inbox... thank you:D